- I-Sadfishing ichaza ukubonakaliswa okuphindaphindiwe kokucindezeleka ngokomzwelo ezinkundleni zokuxhumana ukuze kutholakale ukunakwa, ukwesekwa, noma ukuqinisekiswa komphakathi.
- Lokhu kuziphatha kuhlobene nokuzethemba okuphansi, isizungu, ukukhathazeka, ukucindezeleka, kanye namaphethini okufuna ukunaka aqiniswa yi-algorithms.
- Nakuba kunganikeza impumuzo yesikhashana, kwandisa ukuthembela ezimpendulweni zangaphandle futhi kuveza abantu ekugxekweni, ekuxhashazweni nge-inthanethi, nakwezinye izingozi, ikakhulukazi intsha.
- Ukukhuthaza ulwazi lwedijithali ngemizwa kanye nezindlela eziphephile zokusekela kusiza ukuhlukanisa phakathi kokuveza okunempilo kanye nokusetshenziswa kwezokuxhumana okuyinkinga.
Owesifazane osemusha uziqopha ekhala ngekhamera yangaphambili yocingo lwakhe, ulayisha ividiyo kuTikTok, futhi akachazi kahle ukuthi yini engalungile. Ku-Instagram, othile uthumela umyalezo omude kakhulu mayelana nokuhlukana. umthelela Ukhuluma ngenkinga yakhe yakamuva yempilo yengqondo. Ngemuva kwazo zonke lezi zigcawu, kukhona okufanayo: Ukubonisa ukucindezeleka ngokomzwelo emphakathini ukuze uthole ukwesekwa, ukunakwa, noma ukuqinisekiswa.
Lesi simo sisanda kunikezwa igama: ukudabukisaAsikhulumi ngokukhuluma ezinkundleni zokuxhumana ngezikhathi ezithile, okuyinto eqondakalayo neyobuntu, kodwa ngohlobo oluthile lokuvezwa ngokomzwelo. okuphindaphindiwe, okubonakala kakhulu, futhi okuvame ukuhloselwa ukwandisa ukusabela komphakathiAke sichaze ukuthi yini ebangela leli gama, ukuthi livelaphi, yiziphi izingozi elizihilelayo, nokuthi kungani libe ngelinye lezihloko ezixoxwa kakhulu lapho kuhlaziywa ubudlelwano phakathi kwezokuxhumana nempilo yengqondo.
Kuyini ngempela ukudoba nge-sadfishing?
Leli gama ukudabukisa Leli gama lathandwa kakhulu ngumlobi waseBrithani uRebecca Reid ngo-2019, lapho ehlaziya amacala amaningana osaziwayo ababelana ngokuqukethwe okungokomzwelo kakhulu ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. Esihlokweni sakhe, uchaze i-sadfishing njengesenzo se Ukuthumela izinkinga zomzwelo noma okuhlangenwe nakho okubuhlungu ku-inthanethi ngenhloso yokuvusa uzwela, ukunakwa, noma ukwesekwa okukhulu ngabalaleli.
Ukudlala ngamagama kuvela ku- ukudoba izinhlanzi (ukudala amaphrofayili mbumbulu ukuze akhohlise abanye) ukushintsha igama elithi “ikati” libe elithi “ukudabuka”. Umqondo awukhona ukuthi umuntu uqamba ukuhlupheka kwakhe, kodwa ukuthi usebenzisa ukudabuka njengento ebangela ukudabuka. "Isicupho semizwa" ukuheha ukunaka, ukuphawula, ukuthandwa kanye nemiyalezo yangasese yenduduzo.
Akuyona yonke into ezwakala idabukisa ezinkundleni zokuxhumana edabukisayo. Ukuveza imizwa ku-inthanethi kungaba nempilo futhi kube nokwelapha. Okuphawula lo mkhuba yindlela okwenziwa ngayo: ukulingiswa kwendaba, ukungaqondakali okubalwa, izincwadi eziphindaphindwayo, kanye nokulindela okucacile kwempenduloUkugxila akusikho kakhulu kulokho okuzwakalayo, kodwa endleleni okukhulunywa ngayo kanye nomgomo.
Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo uPatricia Arenas, uchwepheshe wezinkinga zokuhlukumezeka kanye nokunamathela, uchaza ukudoba ngokudabukisayo njengohlobo Ukuboniswa okuphindaphindiwe nokwandisiwe kokuhlupheka ngokomzwelo ezinkundleni zokuxhumana ukuze kutholakale ukunakwa, uzwelo, noma ukuqinisekiswa komphakathiUmehluko ngokuphahluka "okuvamile" usekuhlosweni, ithoni, kanye nokuncika empendulweni.
Lapho ubuhlungu buqala ukwaneliseka
Ngokukhula kwe-Instagram, i-TikTok, kanye nezinye izinkundla, umugqa phakathi kwempilo yangasese nokuboniswa komphakathi awusabonakali. Lokho okwake kwabelwana ngakho eqenjini elincane manje kwabelwana ngakho namakhulu noma izinkulungwane zabantu. Kwabaningi abadali bokuqukethwe, I-biography ngokwayo isibe yinto eluhlaza yokukhiqiza izincwadiUkuhlukana, usizi, izinkinga ezingokomzwelo, ukuxilongwa kwempilo yengqondo… konke kufakiwe endabeni.
Kulesi simo, ukudoba nge-sadfishing kufaneleka njengelinye isu. Abanye abasebenzisi, ikakhulukazi abantu abanethonya kanye nabantu abadumile emphakathini, bahlanganisa izikhathi zabo zokukhala, ukukhathazeka, noma ukuqhuma ngokomzwelo "endabeni" yabo yedijithali. Ukuhlupheka kuba umthombo wezindaba odala ukuzibandakanyaUkubukwa kuyanda, amazwana akhuthazayo ayanda, futhi i-akhawunti ithola ukubaluleka.
Icala eliyisibonelo laliyilelo Kendall JennerLo modeli wabelane ngamazwana akhe siqu ku-Instagram mayelana nobuhlungu besikhumba abuzwe esemncane, ukuthi buthinta kanjani ukuzethemba kwakhe, nokuthi wahlupheka kangakanani ngenxa yokubukwa abanye. Kamuva kwembulwa ukuthi lokhu kuvuma kwakuyingxenye yephrojekthi enkulu. ingxenye yomkhankaso okhokhelwayo wokukhangisa umkhiqizo ngokumelene ne-acne, okwaphakamisa i-alamu: abasebenzisi abaningi bahumusha ubuthakathaka njengobusetshenziswe njenge ihhuku lokuhweba.
Impikiswano ayiphelelanga lapho. Ngemva kwaleso sigameko, kwaqala ukubuyekezwa okunye okuthunyelwe okufanayo: amavidiyo abantu bekhala, imibhalo ehlekisayo engenamongo omkhulu, izikhangiso ezifihliwe njengezivumo eziyimfihlo… Konke lokhu kwavuselela impikiswano mayelana nokuthi ezinye izinkulumo ezingokomzwelo ezinkundleni zokuxhumana zingakanani. ingabe ziyiqiniso noma ziyingxenye yesu lokuthola ukubonakala noma ukuthengisa okuthile?.
Kunoma ikuphi, noma ngabe akukho sithakazelo esicacile kwezomnotho, ukusebenza kwamapulatifomu kuqinisa lolu hlobo lokuguquguquka: lapho okuqukethwe kunamandla futhi kuthinta imizwa, Kuvame ukuvusa ukusabela okwengeziwe, futhi ama-algorithms ayakwandisa nakakhulu..
Ukwesaba, ukuqinisekiswa komphakathi, kanye nesidingo sokubonakala
Ngokombono wengqondo, ukudoba ngokudabukisayo kungaqondwa njengohlobo lwe- sesha ukuqinisekiswa kwezenhlalo nengokomzweloEndaweni lapho ukuzethemba kusekelwa kakhulu "okuthandwayo," ukuphawula, kanye nemibono, ukukhombisa ubuthakathaka bomuntu kuba yindlela esheshayo yokuzizwa ebonwa, ethandwa, futhi esekelwa.
Kwabanye abantu, lokhu kuziphatha kuhlobene nesidingo sokuthi "Ukusekelwa ngokomzwelo" Noma “equkethe ukwesekwa”: ukuthi indawo ezungezile (noma ngabe idijithali) iyaqaphela ukucindezeleka kwayo ngaphandle kokwahlulela futhi iyakuqinisekisa. Ukufaneleka akusakhiwa ngokwabelana ngezintshisekelo kuphela, kodwa nangokwabelana ngamanxeba. Lapho abanye besabela ngozwela, umuzwa wokuxhumana uyanda.
Izifundo eziningana ziphakamisa ukuthi ukusetshenziswa kwezokuxhumana ngokomzwelo kuhlobene ukulawulwa kwezifundazwe zangaphakathi futhi ngezitayela zokuzibophezela noma zokuzibophezela ezikhathazayo. Labo abesaba ukungathandwa, noma ukulahlwa, bangase basebenzise ukukhombisa ukuhlupheka kwabo ukuze bahlole ukuthi abanye basekhona yini ngenxa yabo. Impendulo yomphakathi iba uhlobo lwe-thermometer yemizwa..
Ucwaningo lwango-2023 lwentsha, oluthi “Intsha edoba ngokudabukisayo ezinkundleni zokuxhumana: ukukhathazeka, ukucindezeleka, ukufuna ukunakwa, kanye nokuntuleka kokusekelwa komphakathi okubonwayo njengabangaba negalelo,” luthole ukuthi idoba ngokudabukisayo lihlotshaniswa amazinga aphezulu okukhathazeka, izimpawu zokucindezeleka, ukufuna ukunakwa, kanye nombono ophansi wokusekelwa komphakathiNgamanye amazwi, intsha eningi esebenzisa lolu hlobo lwencwadi ayenzi lokho "ngokuzibukisa" nje kuphela, kodwa ngenxa yobuthakathaka bangempela nesidingo sokusekelwa abangasitholi endaweni yabo eseduze.
Izici zamasiko nazo zidlala indima: isizukulwane sonke sikhule silandisa izimpilo zaso ku-inthanethi. Kubo, ukwabelana ngendlela abazizwa ngayo, ngisho noma kukhulunywa ngemizwa yangasese kakhulu, Kuyindlela yemvelo yokwandisa ubukhona babo ku-inthanethiUkusondelana kuyayeka ukuba ngokuphelele futhi kuba yingxenye yokusebenza: umuntu uyakhala, kodwa ukukhala nakho kuyaqoshwa.
Ukudabuka, ukuzethemba kanye nokuphazamiseka kobuntu
Izisusa ezibangela ukudoba nge-sadfishing ziyahlukahluka. Kwezinye izimo, izici zobuntu ezifana nokuzikhukhumeza ziyavela, lapho kunesifiso esinamandla sokuba yisizinda sokunaka. Abantu abanale phrofayili bangase badlulise ukucindezeleka kwabo noma bakuthumele ngendlela ephawulekayo ukuze bathole ukunakwa. ukuqinisekisa ukugeleza okuqhubekayo kokubuka nokuqashelwa.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kungaba khona futhi ukuzethemba okuphansi kakhulu Lokhu kuholela ekufuneni okuphuthumayo ukuqinisekiswa kwangaphandle okubalulekile. Kumuntu ozizwa enesizungu noma engelutho, ukuthola imiyalezo eminingi yothando ezinkundleni zokuxhumana kungaba yisikhuthazo esisheshayo ngokomzwelo, noma ngabe umphumela ungowesikhashana.
Ezinye izifundo zixhumanise ukunaka okuqhubekayo ezinkundleni zokuxhumana namaphethini athile obuntu, njengokuthi ukuphazamiseka kobuntu be-histrionicokubonakala ngesidingo esikhulu sokuvunyelwa kanye nokuthambekela kokulingisa imizwa. Izincwadi zesayensi zakamuva zibonisa ukuthi abantu abanokuziphatha okufuna ukunaka, abasebenzisa ukuphika njengendlela yokubhekana nesimo noma abasebenzisa izinkundla zokuxhumana besebenzisa utshwala noma ezinye izinto, Bangase bavume ukuthi banemikhuba yokudoba ngokudabukisayo.
Ubudlelwano no Isifo Sobuntu Esibangelwa Yimingcele (BPD)Esinye sezici ezivelele kakhulu ze-BPD ukungazinzile okukhulu ngokomzwelo kanye nobunzima bokulawula imizwa. Ezikhathini zenhlekelele, i-inthanethi iba yindawo esheshayo yokukhulula imizwa evalelwe: okuthunyelwe okungazelelwe, amavidiyo okhalayo, imiyalezo yokuphelelwa yithemba ekugcineni efuna ukunciphisa ukukhathazeka nokuthola ubungane.
Ngaphezu kwakho konke lokhu kunezinye izithako ezivamile ku-BPD: ukwesaba okukhulu kokushiywa, imizwa engapheli yokungabi nalutho, izinkinga zobunikazi… Kule ndawo yokuzalela, izinkundla zokuxhumana zisebenza njengombukiso ophelele lapho zizama khona ukugcwalisa isikhala nge oxhumana nabo, ukusabela kanye nokuqinisekiswa okusheshayoInkinga ukuthi lokhu kukhululeka kwesikhashana kungaqinisa iphethini futhi kwenze kube nzima ukufuna usizo olujulile lochwepheshe.
Izinzuzo ezibonakalayo kanye nezingozi ezifihliwe
Uma ubheka ngaphandle, ukudoba ngokudabukisayo kungase kubonakale sengathi "yidrama" noma isifiso sokunakwa, kodwa kulabo abakwenzayo, kuvame ukuba nezinzuzo ezisheshayo. Esikhathini esifushane, ukwabelana ngobuhlungu ezinkundleni zokuxhumana kungaveza umuzwa wokuthi ukuthuthumela nokukhululekaUmuntu uyakhipha umoya, athole ukwesekwa, futhi azizwe engedwa kangako.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, lokho okubizwa ngokuthi izinzuzo zesibiliImiyalezo yesikhuthazo, ukuthandwaUkukhuluma kanye nezenzo zokunakekela zisebenza njengesiqiniseko esinamandla. Uma njalo lapho umuntu ebhala ngokuhlupheka kwakhe ethola igagasi lokunakwa okuhle, kulula ukuthi lokhu kuziphatha kuphindwe futhi kube yindlela ejwayelekile yokulawula ukucindezeleka ngokomzwelo.
Kodwa-ke, esikhathini esiphakathi nesikhathi eside, ukudoba nge-sadfishing kungaba yi- inkemba esika nhlangothi zombiliNgakolunye uhlangothi, kungaqeda ukuzethemba: uma ukubaluleka kwami kuncike ekutheni abantu bangizungezile kangakanani uma ngithi ngizizwa ngidangele, ngincika kakhulu kulowo mjikelezo wemiklomelo yedijithali futhi angikwazi ukuzimela.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, i-inthanethi akuyona indawo enozwela kakhulu. Akuwona wonke umuntu ophendula ngozwela. Ukuchayeka kakhulu ngokomzwelo kungenza umuntu abe yisisulu salokho. iziqhwaga ze-inthanethi noma izisulu zocansiLezi zinhlelo zisheshe zibone abasebenzisi abasengozini futhi zizama ukuxhumana nabo ngasese. Lokho umthumeli ayekufisa ukuthi kube ukwamukelwa okuhlangene kungaphenduka igagasi lemiyalezo ebuhlungu.
Le ngozi inkulu kakhulu endabeni yezingane kanye nentsha. Okuthunyelwe okuveza isizungu, ukudabuka, noma isidingo sothando kungadonsela ukunaka kwezingane. iziqhwaga ze-inthanethi noma izisulu zocansiBasheshe babone abasebenzisi abasengozini futhi bazame ukuxhumana nabo ngasese. Inhlanganisela yokuvezwa ngokomzwelo kanye nokuntuleka kokugadwa kwabantu abadala ivula ithuba lezimo eziyingozi kakhulu.
Ukuncika kwempendulo kanye nomjikelezo wokulutha
Imithombo yezokuxhumana isebenza ngohlelo lokuqinisa ulwazi lwezinzwa oluvame ukuliqhathanisa nolwezinye izindlela zokuziphatha eziluthayo. Ukuthandwa, izaziso, kanye nokuphawula kusebenza njenge imivuzo engapheliAzifiki njalo, azihlali zinamandla afanayo ngaso sonke isikhathi, futhi yilokho kanye ukungabikezeleki okukhangayo.
Uma kwenzeka i-sadfishing, le ndlela iba namandla kakhulu. Ukuthumela okuqukethwe okunemizwa kakhulu kuvame ukukhiqiza impendulo enamandla: uchungechunge lwezimpendulo, ezingeni lobuchopho, ivula izifunda zomvuzoKulula kumuntu ukuhlanganisa umqondo othi "uma ngithi ngizizwa kabi, ngizizwa ngingcono ngoba ngithola ukunakwa", ngaleyo ndlela kuqinisa ukuziphatha.
Inkinga ukuthi, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ukubekezelelaLokho okwake kwaveza imibono eminingi kulahlekelwa umthelela wako. Ukuze aphinde athole lelo zinga elifanayo lokuzibandakanya, umuntu angase alingeke ukuthumela okuqukethwe okunamandla kakhulu, okunedrama, noma okuvamile. Lokhu kudala umjikelezo lapho ukulawula imizwa kuncike cishe ngokuphelele kulokho okwenzeka esikrinini.
Lokhu kuncika empendulweni yangaphandle kungaphazamisa ukuthuthukiswa kwamathuluzi okuphatha imizwa angaphakathi. Esikhundleni sokufunda ukucela usizo ngqo kubathandekayo noma ukubhekana nokucindezeleka ekwelashweni, abantu baphendukela ngokuphindaphindiwe ekuchayekeni kubantu abangabazi. Lokho okwakubonakala sengathi ukukhululwa kanye kuphela kuba yindlela eyinhloko yokubhekana nobuhlungu.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuchayeka ngokuphindaphindiwe ezinkingeni zomuntu siqu kungaphela ukunciphisa izinkinga ezinkulu zempilo yengqondoUma konke sekwanelisa, kukhona ingozi yokuthi ukuhlupheka kuzoncipha kube ubuhle bokudabuka, uphawu lomuntu siqu, noma umthombo wokugcina ukunaka kwezilaleli.
Ubuqiniso, ukusola, kanye nengozi yokwahlulela ngokweqile
Enye yezimpikiswano ezivame kakhulu mayelana nokudoba nge-sadfishing ubunzima bokubona ukuthi okuthunyelwe okudabukisayo kuyiqiniso yini. isicelo sangempela sosizo noma isu lokuthola ukunakwaUma ubheka ngaphandle, ngokuvamile akunakwenzeka ukubona. Noma kunjalo, ezinkundleni zokuxhumana sekuyinto ezenzakalelayo ukubiza noma ubani oziveza ngokomzwelo ngokuthi "uyisigebengu".
Amacala afana nalawa u-JUSTIN bieber Bayisibonelo esihle. Lapho lo mculi ebazisa ukuthi unesifo i-Lyme futhi ekhuluma ngokucindezeleka kwakhe kwengqondo, abanye abantu basabela ngokuqonda, kodwa abanye bamsola ngokweqisa, ukudlala isisulu, nokusebenzisa isimo sakhe sempilo ukuze adonsele ukunaka kwabezindaba. Kwenzeka okufanayo nangabaculi abanjengo Sam Smith, wagxekwa ngokuziqopha ekhala ngesikhathi evalelwe yedwa.
Lo mkhuba wokusola noma yini ezwakala idabukisa ezinkundleni zokuxhumana unezingozi zawo. Uma umuntu ecela usizo ngempela futhi impendulo iyinqwaba yamazwana anjengokuthi “ufuna nje ukunakwa,” umthelela empilweni yakhe yengqondo ungaba mkhulu kakhulu. Ihlazo, umuzwa wecala, ukwehla kokuzethemba, kanye nokwesaba ukucela ukwesekwa futhi. Lokhu kuyimpendulo evamile kulabo abasolwa ngokungafanele ngokudoba ngokudabukisayo.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, labo abakhulisa ngamabomu noma abaqamba izinkinga ezinkulu (izifo, imizamo yokuzibulala, izinhlekelele zomndeni) ukuze badale umthelela babeka engcupheni yokulimaza nabanye. Ukushicilela okuqukethwe okuthinta imizwa kakhulu, ikakhulukazi okuhlobene nezifo ezinkulu noma izinkinga ezinkulu, kungabangela abafundi ukuba... ukukhathazeka, ukucindezeleka ngokomzwelo, noma ngisho nokudala izinkumbulo ezibuhlungu.
Isihluthulelo, njengoba ochwepheshe abaningana besho, siseku- ibhalansi ethambile: hhayi ukuphathisa abanye abantu abazwana nabo ubuhlungu kusukela ekuqaleni, kodwa futhi hhayi ukukhohlwa iqiniso lokuthi amanethiwekhi omphakathi awayona indawo efanele kakhulu yokusingatha izinkinga ezithile, futhi akuyona indawo yokusekelana kuphela etholakalayo.
Ukudoba okudabukisayo entsheni kanye namasiko axhumene kakhulu
Izingane kanye nentsha basengozini enkulu yalesi simo. Emazweni amaningi, Cishe u-80% wezingane ezineminyaka eyi-10 neyi-11 sezivele zinephrofayela ezinkundleni zokuxhumana ezithileFuthi ingxenye enkulu yabo ichitha amahora amaningi ku-inthanethi nsuku zonke. Amapulatifomu afana ne-TikTok ne-Instagram asephenduke izigaba lapho izipho, ubudlelwano bothando, izingxabano zomndeni, kanye nezinkinga zomuntu siqu kuboniswa kalula ngendlela emangalisayo.
Kulesi simo, kulula ukubona izinkundla zokuxhumana njengendlela eyinhloko yokukhungatheka. "Lokhu kwenzeke kimi, ngidinga ukukhuluma nawe ngakho, shiya umbono wakho kumazwana" sekuyindlela evamile. Konke kuyaneliseka: kusukela ezimpikiswaneni nabazali kuya osizini lwakamuva.Futhi izethameli, ezakhiwe futhi ngabantwana abancane ezimweni eziningi, ziphendula ngaleyo ngxube yozwela, ilukuluku elibi kanye nesivinini esichaza indawo yedijithali.
Inkinga ukuthi ingxenye enkulu yalaba basebenzisi isantula izinsizakusebenza zemizwa kanye nokwahlulela okwanele okubucayi ukuphatha ukudalulwa kwezimpilo zabo zangasese. Abacabangi ngemiphumela yesikhathi esizayo yokushiya umkhondo ohlala njalo wezinkinga ezithile, futhi abazi kahle izingozi zokudalula ubuthakathaka babo endaweni yomphakathi evulekele noma ubani.
Yingakho kunenkulumo eyandayo ngesidingo sokusebenza "ekufundeni ngezokuxhumana nabantu": ukufundisa intsha ukuhlukanisa phakathi kokuveza imizwa yayo ngendlela enempilo nokusebenzisa ngokweqile izinkundla zokuxhumana nabantu ukuze kulawulwe imizwa yabo. Kumayelana nokubasiza ukuthi babone ukuthi okuthunyelwe kuyisikhalo sangempela sosizo oludinga ukungenelela kwabantu abadala, nokuthi kuyini ingxenye yokusesha ukuqinisekiswa okungaqondiswa eziteshini eziphephile.
Ngesikhathi esifanayo, abanye ohulumeni baye bacabangela ukukhawulela noma ngisho nokuvimbela ukufinyelela kumanethiwekhi athile ngaphansi kweminyaka ethile, ngenxa yokuhlanganiswa kokuchayeka, ukufuna ukunakwa, kanye nokuntuleka kokuvuthwa ngokomzwelo okubonwa ezimweni eziningi zokudoba okudabukisayo kwentsha.
Indlela yokubhekana nokudoba ngokudabukisayo ngendlela enempilo
Ayikho indlela yomlingo yokuphatha lesi simo, kodwa kunemibuzo okufanele uzibuze yona ngaphambi kokuthumela okuqukethwe okuyimfihlo kakhulu. Omunye wayo yilo: "Ngifunani ngempela ngokwabelana ngalokhu?"Uma impendulo ithi "Ngidinga umuntu ozongisiza ngempela," kungaba nengqondo ukubhalela umuntu omethembayo, ukwenza i-aphoyintimenti nochwepheshe, noma ukufuna izinsizakalo zokusekela, kunokuba ukwethule lokho kubantu abangalindelekile.
Omunye umbuzo obalulekile: “Umuntu obona lokhu okuqukethwe uzokwenzenjani emavikini noma ezinyangeni ezimbalwa ezizayo?” Ukushicilela ngesikhathi sokushisa kwaleso sikhathi, phakathi nesiphithiphithi, kungaba nemiphumela okunzima ukuyiguqula. izithombe-skrini ezisakazwayo, ukuhleka usulu, ukungaqondani, ukulahlekelwa ubumfihloNgezinye izikhathi, ukulinda amahora ambalwa, ukukhuluma nomuntu oseduze nawe, nokunquma ngokuthula ukuthi yini ozokwabelana ngayo nokuthi yini ongayabelani ngayo kwenza umehluko omkhulu.
Kulabo ababuka lolu hlobo lokuthunyelwe, kukhona nendawo yesenzo esinomthwalo wemfanelo. Ngaphambi kokubiza othile ngokuthi umkhohlisi noma isazi sokudayisa ngotshwala, kuyasiza ukukhumbula lokho. Ngemuva kwaleso sikrini kungase kube nomuntu odlula esikhathini esinzima kakhuluUmyalezo oyimfihlo onenhlonipho, isimemo sokufuna usizo, noma ukugwema ukuhlanganyela ekubulaweni nasekuhlekisweni, kungaba nomthelela omkhulu kunalokho esikucabangayo.
Okokugcina, ezingeni elihlangene, kufanelekile ukuhlola ukuthi hlobo luni lokuqukethwe esikuvuzayo. Uma sinaka kakhulu kuphela ukuvuma okubi kakhulu, okunezinyembezi, noma okuhlazisayo, siqinisa ngokungazi imodeli lapho ubuthakathaka busetshenziswa khona njengempahla. Ukwenza kube ngokwejwayelekile izindlela zokukhuluma ezingokomzwelo ezithembekile, ezingakhangi kangako, nezicabangela kakhulu Kuyingxenye yenselele yokuphila emasikweni axhumene kakhulu njenganamuhla.
I-Sadfishing ilebula lakamuva lento eyayikhona kudala ngaphambi kwezokuxhumana: isidingo somuntu sokubonwa, ukuzwiwa nokuqondwa Uma sihlupheka. Okushintshile isimo kanye nomthamo wesikhulumi. Ukuqonda lesi simo ngomqondo ocacile, ngaphandle kokusenza sibe yihlazo noma sibe yinto enhle, kungasisiza ukuthi sibasekele kangcono labo abasenzayo futhi sihlole izindlela zethu zokubonisa (noma zokufihla) lokho esikuzwayo kwabanye.
